Let's go back in time for some context.
The French 
						never understood why President Bill Clinton was 
						impeached for the Monica Lewinsky scandal following 
						disapproval by those "puritanical Americans." Sure, he 
						may have lied about the dalliance under oath, but he was 
						just lying about sex. In French culture, it shouldn't 
						have been the voting public's business as long as he was 
						still competently doing his job. (Not that we ever 
						really know how much more competent a person might be in 
						executing his duties in the absence of the extramarital 
						sex; why is the assumption always that they were giving 
						it their all?)
						
						As disinterested as the French may seem about top-level 
						politicians' sexual dalliances, they're ultimately far 
						less accepting of the results. Former French President 
						Francois Mitterrand managed to hide a second family from 
						the public, even as taxpayer resources were being used 
						to support them. The daughter born to Mitterrand and his 
						mistress out of wedlock is now a 37-year-old author and 
						university professor, Mazarine Pingeot, and she's still 
						being confronted in the French media about having been 
						secretly raised on taxpayer funds.
						
						Similarly, the French were happy to ignore former 
						International Monetary Fund chief Dominique 
						Strauss-Kahn's extramarital sexual hyperactivity for 
						years, until it became impossible to ignore. That 
						happened when a Manhattan hotel maid's accusations 
						caught the attention of legal authorities and the 
						American press. Strauss-Kahn has since returned to 
						opened floodgates in France and is currently facing 
						"aggravated pimping" charges in Lille, in connection 
						with a prostitution ring.
						
						It's not as if the French typically have the option of 
						paying attention to such things before they spin out of 
						control. The French media is prohibited by law from 
						publishing personal or private details about a public 
						figure without the public figure's permission. Even when 
						sex merges with a scandal that happens to be in the 
						public interest, French jurisprudence mandates that 
						anything belonging to the private realm must be 
						carefully parsed out of all media coverage.
						
						So, essentially, the French are cool with whatever 
						public officials want to do sexually -- affairs or 
						otherwise -- because they don't really have a choice, 
						since their media are prohibited from reporting such 
						things. If they eventually do find out about such an 
						incident, there won't be any fallout from it unless the 
						misbehavior was accompanied by gross incompetence and 
						not just a lack of productivity.
						
						And here's where the Petraeus affair becomes a very 
						interesting case for the French. Chatter is divided 
						between those who feel Petraeus should be able to sleep 
						with whomever he wants because he has demonstrated 
						competence in his job, and those who believe the case 
						demonstrates incompetence on Petraeus' part by 
						potentially compromising national security.
						
						While French presidents such as Mitterrand, Jacques 
						Chirac and others have had affairs, their side pieces 
						were compartmentalized well away from matters requiring 
						security clearances. Clearly, your love life has 
						spiraled out of control when you're the CIA director and 
						things have gotten to the point where Mistress No. 1 -- 
						when she isn't giving speeches that may or may not 
						include items from your pillow talk, like the possible 
						existence of a secret CIA prison in Benghazi -- is 
						harassing Potential Mistress No. 2 to the point that 
						Potential Mistress No. 2 asks the FBI to get involved.
						
						When your wife throws a lamp at your head, it's your own 
						personal business. But when the FBI has to step in to 
						untangle your "Love Pentagon" and offers you a sword on 
						which to fall, and you can't imagine anything short of 
						swan-diving on it, then things have reached the point of 
						no return. The French book tour awaits, Mon General!
 
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