Dominique Strauss-Kahn's Last 'Seduction': French Culture Complicit In IMF Head Rape Allegation
By: Rachel Marsden
As a journalist who moved to Paris from New York nearly two years ago, I've
needed to get something off my chest for quite some time: I'm fed up with French
"seducers" and the culture of permissiveness that surrounds them. The alleged
attempted rape of a Manhattan hotel maid by International Monetary Fund chief
Dominique Strauss-Kahn is a reminder of how deep that culture runs in French
society.
It's not that there aren't decent guys in France - there are, of course, plenty
of them. But at the same time, "seducer" doesn't have the same negative
connotation in France as it might in America, and that's where much of the
problem lies.
"DSK," as he's known in France, has long been nicknamed "The Great Seducer." In
other words, the 62-year-old Socialist is a leading ladies' man par excellence.
Excusez-moi, s'il vous plait, while I plunge my head into la toilette.
I'm hardly in a position to pontificate on the merits of the criminal case
itself - I'll leave that to Manhattan District Attorney Cy Vance Jr. Besides, as
far as uninformed opinions are concerned, France's self-appointed spokesman of
the intellectual elite, Bernard Henri-Levy, has that covered - defending his
friend DSK's honor, after doing exactly the same for director and child rapist
Roman Polanski when the latter faced extradition to the United States for yet
another crime Henri-Levy wasn't there to witness but is very eager to excuse.
DSK may yet turn out to be innocent. Or he may turn out to be guilty. French
suspicions aside, there's a finely honed American legal system to figure out
which. And it's precisely this fact - that American justice is going to have its
say - that the French are having trouble digesting. DSK may be a lecher, but
he's their lecher. As French Justice Minister Elisabeth Guigou said of seeing
DSK partaking in that famous New York ritual known as the perp walk, "\[It's\] a
brutality, a violence, of an incredible cruelty, and I'm happy that we don't
have the same judiciary system."
With attitudes like that, it's hard to persuade friends in France to trust the
New York courts. A recent poll, in fact, says 57% of the public in France
believes Strauss-Kahn to be the "victim of a conspiracy."
It's par for the course; the French find it easier to dream up intricate
conspiracies - in this case, most of them involving French President Nicolas
Sarkozy, who was likely to face a challenge from DSK - rather than believe that
their leaders are actually criminals who've earned their spot on Rikers Island
(where DSK is being held on suicide watch).
DSK may simply have forgotten that Napoleon gave up America in the Louisiana
Purchase, and therefore his "droits de seigneur" as a member of the French elite
on American soil haven't existed for 200 years. The French response has been
subtly condescending, as if we Americans can't understand their sophisticated
sexual practices and arrest a refined individual like DSK instead of simply
tolerating him with a c'est la vie, as the French for so long have.
But one thing I've come to understand as a woman living in France is the true
French meaning behind that otherwise innocuous, even romantic, word - "seducer."
You see, a "seducer" in France is merely a spin that hides a darker reality.
French law grants the right to fully control one's image and prohibits
publication of personal details without expressed written consent. Journalists
who break this rule are either sued, fired (usually upon request of the powerful
person targeted) or blacklisted.
When in doubt as to whether a piece of information relates to the private sphere
- such as when poor personal conduct occurs in a professional setting, something
of which DSK has been accused over the years - journalists constantly make the
mistake of dismissing it as a private quirk. In the same way, they withheld
disclosing the existence of President Francois Mitterrand's secret family
despite the fact that its lifestyle was being funded by taxpayers.
Still, the French are human - so open secrets circulate among the chattering
classes, reputations are developed and journalists attempt to discreetly
summarize for the public all the behavior they've heard about by referring to
the person in question as a "seducer" in any articles they may write. Readers
are then free to guess as to the details of the unspoken weight that term
implies.
I have yet to meet anyone described as a "seducer" during my two years in France
who hasn't come across as thoroughly off-putting. They're often throwbacks to
monarchical times, when male elites married women they didn't necessarily love
for social reasons and were therefore excused in pursuing true love with
mistresses.
France has obviously changed, with people free to marry whom they want, yet
there are still those who insist on acting as if the royal court remained seated
in Versailles. Ergo, a seducer generally juggles many women, regardless of
marital status, and enjoys the added benefit of society and the press
romanticizing his piggish behavior.
Worse, seducers are often flatout mentally ill, or at the very least hiding some
sort of pathology that the press can only legally summarize as "seductive"
without the journalist throwing away his or her career or being hauled into
court on a libel charge.
So as a woman in France, I've learned to steer clear whenever I hear anyone
described as a "seducer." I'm looking forward to DSK, Henri-Levy and the French
elite proving me wrong when "The Great Seducer" is discovered to have been the
victim of a horrible misunderstanding. But I'm not going to hold my breath.
COPYRIGHT 2011 RACHEL MARSDEN/NY DAILY NEWS